I have moved my post from the newcomers to here in hope of really getting some help.

My wife says she wants to come home but she's terrified. She not only left me but 4 children, her mother and 1 of her brothers (we all live in my home). She has told her brother that she sees the changes in me, she knows if OM wasnt around she would be more receptive to our marriage. She does love me, she misses me. She misses our family.

I guess what i am looking for is advise on how to make her take the leap.


M-34, W-33
SS14, SS13, S8, D6