Wii, the DB wisdom says you must immediately stop all contact with him, don't answer his phone calls or emails, do get a lawyer that specializes in these types of cases. Whenever you remind yourself of him think of a stop sign, well since you're in Canada, think of a Moose cross sign and say out loud 'what a disgusting person he was, what was I thinking?' And to be honest, I don't know what you were thinking either if I came across a jerk like him...
At least the good thing is you can now have a more meaningful relationship, not for sex alone
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again