Mine has turned completely PB, so I ssay wait. In 8 weeks mine went from "I don't know" to "lets makes plans". I knew OM stuff would play out but not this quick. I'm sure it does not usually happen this fast but they were not together long, it was more of a drinking buddy and stuff thing. When she was done with him she cut him off quick. As the guys here said, keep moving on. My WAW knew I was going out with the fellas and this weekend she actually faced the folks we know, so I know that was tough for her. The threat that I used worked in my sitch but we were apart and threatening to "cut her off' from me was what I think did it. M-48 W-38 M-9 yrs Bomb-labor day weekend She left 9/9 Reconciliatin? TBD