Question, IF she is dumped by OM, and now is coming around, should I continue to keep the rope on the ground? My sense says YES, until she is willing to demonstrate she is committed to the M and so far I have not seen that. This is the walk... I dont want to flip flop and I dont want to miss a genuine opportunity to R is she is sincere. Knowing is the problem.
Oh my goodness, YES! Yes - you don't do a thing (not even have lunch) until she says she wants the M. And even then, you don't do a thing until she demonstrated complete transparency. Otherwise, you'll probably be looking at OM2 just around the corner. If you are two easy to slip in and out of a relationship with, no reason to take her dog out of the hunt.
Next time she asks for a lunch date with you, pal, "I can't - have plans. Thanks, though." Not rude. Just not available. To her.
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