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She looked at me and said "Because I don't care. Do you think something has changed?"


Statements are questions and questions are statements. What's she really telling you?


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It was all WE, WE, WE. It actually disturbed me a bit,


Why is it disturbing you? I bet your issue is the same message your wife is trying to tell you. Not all R talks are bad. If you are reacting then it's bad if you get ahead of the curve then you are leading the situation and acting in positive steps.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.