You're doing the right thing. Not telling her where you were isn't manipulative. It's doing what you want to when YOU want to. She was fishing.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER