Glad you had a fun time in TN! I understand your exhaustion. That is the toughest part when visiting others without young kids, b/c of course you want to stay up and visit, but they all get to sleep in! I know it's hard too when we get these painful reminders of lonliness, but even so, you made it thru it, and that's the first step.
Regarding S and H, did you learn any specifics on this in your parenting class? I want to say that you should just step back. If S wants to call H, definitely let him, but it doesn't seem to make sense for you to wear yourself out trying to maintain that R for them if H doesn't even show enough interest in the first place. You definitely don't want to hurt S, but you can only do what you can do. S will know he is loved b/c you show him so much love, despite what he is lacking from H. H is ruining a chance to have a great R with his son, but that is of his own doing.
Good luck with getting the D processed. It's unfortunate that you are having to stay up on the L so much, but at least you're getting it done!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
