mine too. except as soon as we physically separated, i ended the friendship.
when we were living in the same house/separate rooms, i would be cordial. after we separated, i would see him on the street and not even acknowledge him. why? like KL says .. why would you want to be friends with someone who just destroyed your marriage, wants to leave you destitute, blames you for everything, mentally and verbally abuses you to no end, and took everything in the home that you both shared?
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I'm sure they're in their own fog for wanting this and not realizing the total hell they're putting us through.
on the other hand, they probably know they are putting you through total hell because they believe you are the cause of all their unhappiness. this is what i believe my h is doing to me. punishing me for being the cause of our marital breakdown.
