When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[MichelleLT]

Mish, if you don't ask then they never have a chance to show up. If you ask, you at least put the responsibility on them. If they choose not to spend time with her, that is something they can feel guilty over. But you have done the right things, both in taking care of your mom and telling everyone what is going on.

As for your church, you are involved with bible study and such. Talk to them, talk to your pastor. Even if your mom isn't known there, you are known to some. Ask on behalf of yourself too. You are dealing with a LOT. Anyone would be overwhelmed.

((((((Mishka)))))))