Sol, you've got a lot going on. I believe you've only been separated 7 months and you've got the beginnings of a new R. The D is still not final, you're under a lot of stress with that so I'd be very very cautious with this new R. At this time we can be very needy and having someone new in your life who treats you with respect, listens and is attracted to you is very enticing, it's also stressful emotionally because you haven't yet detached from your previous R. Be careful and don't be concerned if you feel you have to back away from HG at some point. You've got a lot on your plate. Btw, tears are good!
