How about exposing him at work? Would that also get your W in trouble? I'm sorry you had to listen to all the stuff that confirms what an addiction your W was in. But yes the ggod news is you two are talking openly. You are committed. This is huge. But still must be painful. Don't forget to take some time for yourself to process your feelings - journal, talk to a friend, etc. It's awful to find out how much you were lied to. I know. So allow yourself your feelings. You'll get through.
