I think these boards exist as a place to provide support in various ways, not just reiterate platitudes and say "Read the Book".
agree.
starsky, what were you trying to achieve by starting this thread?
Consensus.
Do What Works
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Of course. But I am a little confused. Is it possible that while I am 'doing what works' and acting 'as if' everything is fine for me, is it possible that I might get confused by my own emotions and be just 'acting as if I am doing what works'?
I am trying to be confident And I think I have finally "detached" like the retinas of a really bad amateur boxer who is boxing with professional boxers.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
Of course. But I am a little confused. Is it possible that while I am 'doing what works' and acting 'as if' everything is fine for me, is it possible that I might get confused by my own emotions and be just 'acting as if I am doing what works'?
I thought so. Gee, this is the hardest thing I ever did ever.
Well, I'll 180 it, but it sure feels good to be detaching finally even though it hurts so much.
I was just sitting her thinking about how I don't think about my W because I'm too busy trying to figure out how to GAL. I am not the man she ran away from. I am so detached now.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
And I think I have finally "detached" like the retinas of a really bad amateur boxer who is boxing with professional boxers.