Costume party sounds like fun! I wish I went to a party last night. HG sounds like a good person too. Just take it all very slow. I know those feelings or loss when you are in a familiar place, time of year, or whatever. I feel the same things but I am much better at letting them go now. My X invited me into her/our house last night but I told her I would just wait outside. There are too many triggers in there for me. She has no clue at all, her head is as empty as it was when she was 14.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final