Thanks, Walkingman -

I've been here long enough. I still get caught up in trying to figure out her behavior and why she does the things she does.

I don't know why I ask some of the things I do. I can only imagine what some of the vets would say. I think I'm doing the right things, now. I should have done them months ago. Is it too late? Did I wait too long? My big thing is she will not leave. I know I should go ahead and file, but I want that on her conscience.

Like I read on another thread, when the kids ask, I want them to ask why mom did this or that. Why she left, why she did this and that. I want to be able to tell them I didn't leave them or desert them. I know that's probably not the correct way to handle it, but that's where I'm at.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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