I have personally chosen the latter method. It gives me the opportunity to work on myself and get to know my W better. What were all the issues that needed to be adressed and weren't? I can do this and become a better person while validating her feelings whether I agree with them or not. I am still at home with my family. I can always walk at the end if nothing else works and if that brings her finally around it would be much easier from there. If not, I have the strength and wisdom to move on on my own.
I guess that is the Pinhead method.
NO NO NO
The Pinhead Method is to flail about searching for anything to avoid your situation, only to discover that four months have passed and you're back at square one. Geez, haven't you been paying attention?
