Originally Posted By: PEImom_of_3
Originally Posted By: Starsky309
we don't encourage anyone to go off half-cocked in one direction or another. We wouldn't want someone to misread our advice, however well-intentioned, and do something stupid with it, y'know?

That's why I say to "do what works," GAL, set your goals and do your 180s and act "as if."


Agreed.

I like to post the "vague" advice ... ie. Look inside, dig deep, find yourself ... with examples of what that meant FOR ME. I like pictures smile , illustrations often help to bring it into focus.

PEI


I think we must be careful with that, PEI. If we focus on examples from our own individual sitch, they can be taken the wrong way. What works for one doesn't necessarily work for another.

Starsky


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