My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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I'm nowhere near ready for that (and she claims to not be either), but why does she keep saying that to me? What's the psychology there?

Who knows?

She could be thinking of dating herself (I'd be suprised if this isn't the case since she has moved out, etc). She could be temperature checking you to see if Plan B is still available.

I don't know. I'd not entertain this stuff: "Listen, I appreciate your concern, but I'm not going to take dating advice from my wife or ex-wife because that's just wrong. We're not buddies, and that's that".