May go from Piecing to The Big D

[v1olin]

Just keep on walking. If she does not come running then you have your answer.

[loweinsd51]

Thanks...that's what I'm doing.

For the record, I'm a keeper!

[Starsky309]

Thanks...that's what I'm doing.

For the record, I'm a keeper!

I agree, 51. And no, you're not asking for too much. Maybe just too much for HER . . . for right now.

Hang in there.

Starsky

[loweinsd51]

So when I see her today no R talk and agree/validate her feelings. My stuff is pretty much packed...just need to explain the situation to my DD's

[Edmond Dantes]

What are you trying to communicate when you kiss her before she leaves with your daughter?

[loweinsd51]

Good question...temporary insanity I guess

[loweinsd51]

All right...packed my things and moved back to my parents house. W said "I hope you find what you are looking for". Came back and took my DD's trick or treating and had very little interaction with W. I could see that she was visibly upset.

Trying to shake the feeling that I'm abandoning her...

Joined a couple singles Meetup Groups so that I can get out and about...not so much to meet a romantic interest but just to meet new people and socialize.

[loweinsd51]

I probably know the answer to this question:

Do I continue to help with picking up my DD's from school and taking them to W's apt?

[loweinsd51]

What really sucks is I don't think she even cares how much she hurt me. I know you all say not to worry about it but just can't help to think what is going on in her mind.Granted she did look emotionally upset when I dropped my DD's off last night. Is confronting her about her drinking pursuing?

Short term goals:

File for D
Set up budget/split finances
Set appointment for mediator
GAL

Joining a Divorcecare support group tomorrow night

Dating profiles are active again

[loweinsd51]

Question for the masses...givin my sitch, is DR a good self help book in general?