Well I dont seem to see the chance of reconciliation anymore. My wife poured her heart out to me, said she didnt love the OM, yet she chooses to spend time with him over her kids. I just dont see it any longer.
I have realized she just says what she thinks everyone wants to hear from her. She chose to be with the OM instead of her kids. Even after she promised her kids to spend the evening with them.
My hopes of ever getting this marriage back together are getting further and further out of reach. I dont know how to explain it but each day that goes by, i am starting to care less.
I do however want to umload on her for not calling the kids or responding to them when they tried to get ahold of her. I know I cant but she is just being stupid. She was the best mom, her kids came first in everything she did. Now its like they are second rate citizens.
I know everyone on here says the affair will end, but when. She is the mother of 4, she has no family support, and yet she still carries on the affair with someone she doesnt love and with someone who she doesnt even talk about their relationship with. I just dont get it. How do you live with someone and sleep with someone and take it day by day?
