CTH- As I have been gone for 4 days, on the dating thing. I am ok with you dating as long as you are honest upfront about not being able to have a R right now. I only say thing because I know with me, when I do date, I am not going to want to date someone just to find out he is unavailable. I will feel betrayed. When I am ready to date, I will only date those I truly feel would be R worthy (the way I was before dating H as well). I have never casually dated so I don't see myself doing it now.

Just a thought from another perspective. I am perfectly fine with you dating as long as you are honest with yourself and your date.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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