It'a All About Me

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You know that the syndrome "all about me" is a classic MLC ailment.

Yes! Thought it was an apt thread name cos the tables are turning. H thinks it's all about him but I'm getting more selfish now and I want it to be all about me!!

I think he isn't cooked yet, as snodderly puts it. His latest pull back is proof positive.

I agree and as I've read so often it's a long, slow process and the cooking isn't done until he has the courage to say goodbye to ow. Will that happen? Who knows but he knows and I know that she's a bandaid and nothing more. MIL is kidding herself too if she thinks otherwise!

Keep your space for now....be cautious of his moves. Like I said, the dim to dark approach towards him is a good thing for you right now...and will give him pause to wonder about you. Perhaps this time you should drag it out should he come around again.

I'm listening! I don't feel like contacting him atm anyway so I am capitalising on this feeling. I'm feeling stronger and more in control.

I know exactly how you feel, my friend. Please find comfort in knowing this. Thanks for your friendship.

I know you do and as I've said before I have always been so appreciative of you sharing your thoughts and insights. Thinking of you as you head to 5 Nov. Take care! Cas