If you have no children with him I say continue down your path an get out of the marriage! I have been so sad since finding out about my wh's affair. I have spend most of this time mourning the loss of the marriage. But in the last month or so that has change. I feel that walking away from him would be easy, it is my son that I cry for and the life that we are creating for him. If you end up busting this divorce and have kids with him you coul be in the same place in another 5 years, just with kids. This makes it so much harder. I think if you talked to many of us with children you would find we envy your position b/c if we were child free we would not still be attempting to save the marriage.
