She seemed agitated so I asked her why she seems so angry.
B/C you used Halloween as your excuse to call her but she knows it's not the Trick or Treat you are interested in. She was angry b/c she doesn't want to hear from you. You are pursuing her. Don't you get that?
Then you go deeper by questioning her feelings. You knew by the sound of her voice that she did not want to talk to you, so why on earth did you keep digging a deeper grave?
Until you actually put no contact in action and stop pursing her, you will continually help her bust this M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
