We are past the worsts, taking charge of our lives again....looking inside...learning....healing....finding peace.
Mila, You are soooo right, many of us are finding that peace. You really do "feel" it don't you?? I thought I was feeling it back in August but it was just the beginning of arriving where I am today.
That is not to say that I am done moving but I know I have come a long way. It is hard to describe the feeling, but all I can say is that I am truly focusing on MY life without regard to my W.
I still miss her but I don't "need" her, and you really have to "feel" that.......
You can pay lip service to anyone or everyone but until you "feel" it inside you, you are just fooling yourself.
I think Cat said it...."you will know when you are there" I think that coment was in reference to knowing when you are done and it was in the context of getting past the one year mark.
I am not done, however I am in a far different place, and I KNOW it.
I am so happy for you also, because I KNOW what you are feeling and it does feel good.
Nice to feel good for a change.
Happy Monday.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
