Amen to that.......our daughter just turned 16 and she is doing all kinds of things and going to homecoming games, homecoming dances,getting all prettied up, all he see are her f/b pics...she took the papers very well but she is like her father,never discusses her true feelings. I asked her if she wanted to talk about how she felt, she told me she felt nothing, that it was his choice and he was missing out on her life everyday, but I think she is burying all her feelings deep inside. I hope and pray this will not affect her in her future relationships.I worry about her all the time because she never really cried except right at first and hasnt done much of it. Maybe I am reading too much into it after all she is a typical teenager,growing up so fast,we are not as close as we were when he first left,but I am trusting God with my life, my family,my marriage...there are times when I just want to give up but I am in it till the end....may God give me strength to do so.....after all if I dont pray for my husband who will?? Again Robx thank you for your concern please forgive me.... Irma