Hi DU - About your Norway dilemma....I can only offer you what I would do. It may not be the right thing in the eyes of many here, but I think that I would go.

I would get a separate room, spend time with him, listen to him, no commitments......At least you would come back with a better picture of where he is on his journey....or maybe not....

I guess the main thing is to consider is YOU....if you do go will it be better for YOU or will it make you upset and unbalanced. Are you strong enough to handle whatever you may learn from that trip?

If you go don't do it for him, do it for you.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO