Right before my D was final, I had a little fling. Mostly because I needed to feel some sort of intimacy...something I hadnt felt for a long time. I regret not waiting until after the the D, but it was the beginning of me feeling strong again. I learned that I deserved to be treated well. Dont feel be about having these feelings...they are normal It is my advice to wait until after the D though. At least you know you did the right thing and you will have at least given yourself enough time.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
