I know exactly how you feel.My husband never asks about me,never calls,no emails,never added me as a friend on f/b when I asked him to..NOTHING.it's like I never existed in his life. now his life is centered around her and her family. I pray and hope I am not stuck for good. I just dont want anyone else as my husband or a partner. I got the best yrs out of him tho. Our children,he was a great dad, a great husband, a great grandpa, and a good provider. Now she has a (1).A husband who cheats on his wife,(2).a man who abandoned his kids and the rest of the family, and a man who does not want to work. Yea I think I got the better of him...lots of good memories,we have a history together,a bond that will never be broken.. But I know how it feels for them to never think of us at all. and my thoughts of him are fewer and fewer...still hurts and I still get sad but I think of all the positives that we did have together..those can NEVER been taken from me or us for they are in our hearts and our minds forever.... Irma