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I let my girls do my hair and makeup but no finger or toenail polishng!


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Why not toenails? Who is going to see it? And if you do have "someone" see it, I bet they think it is adorable that you let your girls do it!
Just be careful in the gym...

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Originally Posted By: Donna...Found
Why not toenails? Who is going to see it? And if you do have "someone" see it, I bet they think it is adorable that you let your girls do it!
Just be careful in the gym...


Just wear a bra too and then that "someone" won't even notice your nails!


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Originally Posted By: Donna...Found
Why not toenails? Who is going to see it? And if you do have "someone" see it, I bet they think it is adorable that you let your girls do it!
Just be careful in the gym...


Just wear a bra too and then that "someone" won't even notice your nails!


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After church today, the girls and I were eating when one of the guys from my spring divorce class stopped by. They were separated for three years. He did all he could -- at least he says -- and waited, waited, waited for her to change her mind. It was fruitless.

The D was final on Monday. He said that day was tough. But then it was a little better, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. He said it feels soooo good to have that weight off his shoulder.

I hope that's how it feels for me.


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CTH- As I have been gone for 4 days, on the dating thing. I am ok with you dating as long as you are honest upfront about not being able to have a R right now. I only say thing because I know with me, when I do date, I am not going to want to date someone just to find out he is unavailable. I will feel betrayed. When I am ready to date, I will only date those I truly feel would be R worthy (the way I was before dating H as well). I have never casually dated so I don't see myself doing it now.

Just a thought from another perspective. I am perfectly fine with you dating as long as you are honest with yourself and your date.


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Never fear, CTH. I've seen profiles on line of women who say they don't want a R but are just looking for someone to spend some time with and they didn't sound like they were just looking for action. Those are the women you should approach until you're really ready to look for a R.


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What, did you just say he should approach women who DON'T want a R...
if he is "really ready to look for a R?"

Ummmm.....

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No, I said he should approach women who state in their profile they aren't interested in a R but are looking for someone to spend time with. Sometimes women write that their lives are too busy with work, kids etc for a committed R so those would be women CTH should look at. Now, when he is ready to look for a committed R he should look at those who state that's what they are looking for, you know the "let's start off as friends and see where it goes" kind of women. smile
Personally, when I started dating Myself I wasn't looking for anything serious but over time it just grew and now we're together 24/7. It's as though it was just meant to be! grin


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