In the process

[newmama]

Well I got another wink and he was pretty cute. He had a witty profile, loves his car and wants his girlfriend to "get dirty" with the grease....but he also likes other things that I do. So I emailed him a hello message. His job--didn't say.

zoobrew also texted me back when I was at the zoo! How funny. He said he is usually good at replying quickly except for now (not true) and that he would have replied if he ever got my text. All I said was "I guess I was just wondering why you were saying hi. Not to sound like a b!tch." Don't worry people- it doesn't cost me a lot of energy to send messages.

I also emailed the Helicopter Pilot. I can see a small baby hand on his shoulder in his picture. What the? Maybe his wife cheated on HIM. So we'll see how old his baby is.

Went trick or treating at the zoo....kind of. I mean it was a scavenger hunt of sorts where you got a stamp at the different animal sites and then at the end they give you a treat bag. It was full of free samples of cereal, granola bar, fruit leather, a pencil from a bank and a keychain from a bank.Where was the candy? NO SNICKERS?

Well I met 2 new single moms. The leader of the single mom group, Psych (she was a school psychologist) was rather guarded. NOt warm and fuzzy. Her husband cheated on her with a mutual friend when her son was a couple months old. He left to be with her.

She has only been separated since February but on the way to divorce. She wants sole custody and is fighting him for shared custody all the way. She was shocked that I was "letting" exH see S overnight 2x a week. I explained it was legal and that I didn't want S to not have a good relationship with his dad. But quickly stated that I am not thinking that is the case for everyone because I don't know everyone else's situation (akward!).

She kept saying how she couldn't imagine being with someone else, how would they interact with her son, that it was just weird to imagine.

The other mom didn't have a father in the picture. He was in and out. I don't know the story there. So it was enjoyable just to be with single moms who had babies and not children, but at the same time I got a weird "harsh" vibe from Psych. We'll see.
I would still do something else with her...her pictures show a warm, smiling and happy lady and her emails sound so friendly but...brrrr!!!