Your still depressed because you are still holding ON. Let go of him. That does not mean go file. No it means let his as* go.
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I am not sure if I should just move on with my life
I think you know the answer to this question. Move on with your life Destiny. IMO, that means establishing new friendships, engaging in new activities. ALL of this takes time. A lot of time. I believe that you are operating from a place of fear. Do I do this - do i do that! Fuc* it Destiny, do what YOU want to do. Stop worrying about what he is going to think.
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to wait out his crisis to see if things could change
Your still at that place where you "feel" that YOUR actions will dictate HIS. Waiting does NOT mean you stop living. Waiting does not mean that you do not develop closer friendships with people. Go out, do some activities with the church, go to dinner with friends, go work out, STOP sitting STILL.
IMO, you are sitting and waiting. Waiting for him to change his mind. Fu*k him right now. Really. Do whatever you want to do - be yourself. Live life...
In terms of Norway...
IMO, what do you have to lose? Are you worried that you may lose him? That already happened. He is gone. So what is stopping you from going to Norway? I think I know the answer - FEAR.
The funny thing is IMO it is NOT him that you are afraid of.
What I think your afraid of is taking that step of really living your life.
Your afraid of the changes that YOU must make to become the women that you want to be.
These changes are hard Destiny. They really are.
Sometimes thought ya really have to say f' it.
You know this...BUT your still afraid.
It's comfortable to sit in that place of fear isn't it. I know it was for me. Step out Destiny and face those fears. What you are going find will amaze you.
Are you afraid that your life style will change? F*ck it, it gonna change. It has to change.
Are you afraid that you will not be able to take care of yourself. You know you will be able to do it.
Are you afraid that you will fall out of love with him? Hey maybe you will (i'm being honest here) but you can also fall back in love with him.
Stop being afraid Destiny.
Stop it.
Your better than that. Fu*k what your family says. Do for you.
Fu*k what your job says.
Destiny....life is so short. Please go live it.
As for your H....maybe he will realize what he had and come running back.. Guess what, then it is YOUR call YOUR choice.
Stop being on the defensive and spend some time on the offensive side for a bit.
You really can do "this" (with this being whatever you decide it is) BUT first you need to stop being afraid.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
