MLC=Twilight Zone/When do I wake up?

[ericmsant2]

Warrior

As Lord of the rings said (that would be Missher)

This stuff takes a lot of time.

Be gentle on yourself and do me a favor...

Write down a list of things that YOU want to do for Warrior. Stuff that does not involve anyone else. Just YOU buddy.

Eric

[MHL]

Write down a list of things that YOU want to do for Warrior. Stuff that does not involve anyone else. Just YOU buddy.
Eric

Eric,

Were you quietly sitting by the bonfire last weekend???

Hey Warrior,

Remember that conversation??? Okay if you don't, you were giving that wine a spin....was good stuff wasn't it????

The wine wasn't bad either....;)

Cheers

[PEI]

Hey Missher ... maybe E was lurking ...

Warrior,

You have just really begun this journey for you ... let it sink in, try it on, roll around in it for a while ...

And think open skies ....

Peace
PEI

[Truegritter]

Remember that conversation??? Okay if you don't, you were giving that wine a spin....was good stuff wasn't it????

Yeah Missher was dropping f bombs like a tutu wearing rican...

[PEI]

Remember that conversation??? Okay if you don't, you were giving that wine a spin....was good stuff wasn't it????

Yeah Missher was dropping f bombs like a tutu wearing rican...

Missher?? Don't you mean "Firewalker" ... dude's got more nicknames than I can keep track of ...

[ericmsant2]

Warrior

Write down a list of things that YOU want to do for Warrior. Stuff that does not involve anyone else. Just YOU buddy.

Do you remember this ^^^^^

Did you do it?

Are you going to share?

Com'on buddy...let's see that list.

God Bless,
Eric

[warriorshadow]

Yeah, I will share. I need to think about this. I am going through a moment right now. A good moment. I need to share this as well.
I can't explain it but I need a day or two to process. It is kind
of a euphoria but I don't know if it is short lived or not. I am hoping to share more on little Friday. Don't want to offend anyone here. Not sure what I am going through at the moment. Thank you for asking about me. I do have a list.

[warriorshadow]

Time to update a little.

I have just completed my first week with W in her new place with

the boys for the whole week.This is her idea of legal separation.

Since she had the boys for the week, it was the first time I

had not seen them for a whole week as far as I can remember.

I don't think that ever has happened since we have had 3 kids.

Yes, I missed them and I am glad it is now my week to have

them. W sat next to me in bible study today and this is the 3rd

time in 4 weeks she has done so. LLF did not allow me to attend

bible study with her that weekend. It is truly ironic to note

that we are studying 1st Corinthians and the pastor goes through

every word and verse. Check it out yourself, much of it is how

immoral the people were. He read through 1st Corinthians 5 and 6.

He also comments about many of the verses to give better insight

of the interpretation he has been taught in seminary college.

For everyone out there, MLC throws out any of these morals and

values so the behavior can be justified. They don't hear it or

won't hear it and I doubt if Jesus himself was standing there

saying the words that it would have mattered at all. It was

actually Paul who is the one speaking at Corinth that these

verses were written.

Bottom Line:

The MLC'r must go through the stages. It may mean divorce and in

my case it is highly likely it will since we are in the ninth

month of her filing. The next court date is Dec 13 and that is

to finalize the custody agreement and nothing more. It is

unlikely that the divorce will be final by the end of Dec. or even

Jan. This woman is still not my W who sits next to me in bible

study. It is a very confused woman who may or may not find her

way through all of this. I have no option except to continue to

GAL, DB, and learn from the people here. I have no expectations.

Yes Eric, I will still share a list of what Warrior wants.

[punkin]

WS,

I find the sermons in church sometimes make me very throughtful for the rest of the day. I think that's what they are meant to do. Not just listen quietly, leave quickly, and head to Arby's.

As I sit in church, I often wonder what My H would think of the sermon, not that I'd ever get him in the doors. Your thread has told me what in some respects what I already knew. Selective listening. Toddlers are wonderful at it. So are MLC'rs.

WS, keep the faith and hang in there.

And Eric, I think it is time to update my list.

[MHL]

Hey WS,

I must admit that it is truly baffling how your wife can go to Bible study with you and carry on this other life.....a true testement to the confusion she finds herself in.

You are doing great by remaining calm and focusing on you.....

Looking for that list too.....

Cheers