I've been informed that my post is large and to start a new one. I'll abide and do so. It's fitting since I feel I've arrived at a new stage in this (I call it the "I don't give a F" stage).
I heard from H yesterday after not hearing a thing since his last "your lawyer needs to call mine blow up" a week or so ago. It was about Christmas ideas for D. I don't have any money so I hadn't really gotten very far into deciding what to get her, so I definitely hadn't thought up a list for him. Gave him a few suggestions, he asked about baby doll stuff, gave him a few more suggestions, he asked about shoe size, I responded and that was it.
It was a nice change from the usual "have your lawyer call mine!" crap. I've gotten my L in Arkansas started on filing an answer and motion to H's d papers. Hopefully that works out and we can get everything taken care of. As far as I know, he's still evading service, I'm pretty sure because he doesn't live at the address I have (living with OW). So we'll see what happens. I've considered asking his first ex what address she ahs for him, but I don't know if she'd give it to me or that she'd even have it.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
