She is at it again. I asked when the kids were trick or treating, she writes back saying if you cant be decent towards me you dont need to come around. Our S already has issues with the way you treat me. I replied with we arent going to be friends, not realistic, the fact i am not buddy budy with you should have no bearing on whether the kids see their father or not. The text conversation was a lot longer but i am so angry I cant type it all. I feel this is more about her than the kids. She is not getting her way in regards to us being friends and she is playing this game. Do I go over there anyway? I dont know what to do. My S said he wanted to see me when he was trick or treating, I feel torn right now.