It is what it is. I'm learniing to view her comments and tactics as continued signs of her dysfunction rather than shots at me. It's a good view as these little games just roll past me. Far less analyzing than I used to make. I just sort of "note it" rather than trying to figure out what she's trying to say. If she has something to say, she should say it. And until she gets to that point, there is nothing for me to respond to.
Amen.
Just remember when you are stuck in communication with her to just focus all your energy into looking like the best CD ever, that "you in a good light" and detaching from the dysfunction will go noticed.
They technically trained us to be their minions (lol). When she finally realizes that her communication/missles/shots/dysfunctional actions don't work on you anymore, she will find a new way to break through. That is when the CD I know, will shine.
