Lance thank you and SA. Sometimes I get so depressed about my situation that I am not sure if I should just move on with my life or continue to wait out his crisis to see if things could change. I am still working with my IC to work through those 'demons' you mentioned. Yes, if he were to come back, I would want and would need to know that he would be faithful to me and our mariage. Right now, he is still confused I know.
But one thing, he asked me today to visit him in Norway next weekend. He says he is not sure if it is the right thing, but he loves me and misses me. Not sure what to do. He is going to call me later today for my answer. I am concerned that if I say no, he may see that as a flip off. Or if I do go, that I could further be sucked into his drama and who wants to take a long flight back to the states in misery.
Oh, what to do....I have to think.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
