yeah, its difficult trying to convince friends and family that this is a process I'm entering
1) Why do you give a chit what anyone else thinks? Need validation and approval? Don’t trust yourself just yet? Hmmmm, maybe something you should take a look at. The other reason you are having a hard time is…
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especially when I have not totally convinced myself of it.
THIS ^^^^^
What is their to convince yourself of? Are you trying to convince yourself if you should “stand”? Are you trying to convince yourself that you are not totally fuc*ing crazy and that you joined a web site that goes against the grain? How about you convince yourself of ONE thing right now…
Take the wife out of the equation. Right now, fuc* her.
Take the kids out of the equation. They will be fine dude – trust me. YOU both are probably good parents.
Take the job, house, friends and [censored] dude..take me or anyone else that post to you out of the equation. House is material that can be replaced. Job well that can be replace as well. Friends….hey true friends you don’t have to convince.
What are you working towards Crushed?
Something tells me your working towards saving your M. Right? Psstt…many of us are BUT is that the first thing we should work on? I’ll let you answer that one.
So…..How about you take all of the above out of the equation and then convince yourself of one thing.
CAN YOU WORK TO BE THE BEST MAN YOU CAN BE.
Can you convince yourself of this? If so, well then fuc* me and everyone else. Just become it.
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they love me and want a pound of flesh from those that have hurt me.
Typical - because they see you hurt. When they see you strong, when they see you smile. They will understand and so will you.
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Yet, when explaining the looooong process to others, you really appreciate how exceptional the people here are when its reinforced how many others would char the earth and walk away.
Long, short, what’s the difference (and no lady or GRIT responses please,,,hee,,,hee..) …no seriously dude, YOU’RE HERE TOO…so what does that say about YOU crushed? That you too are exceptional. Me, trust me dude I am just a regular guy trying to get his chit together.
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I'm the tooth fairy in full wings, tutu and tights.
Did Grit lend you the tutu?
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I caught more than one mommy checking what the tooth fairy was rockin'.
Finally, some one that can vouch for me…I keep telling everyone that the “chicks” love the tutu…no one ever believes me. Tell ‘em Crushed. ROTFLMAO.
Have a happy Halloween my friend,
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
