H stayed with the kids last night while I went out to a couple of parties and then to a few bars with girlfriends.
This morning before he left he came up and asked me where all my diamond jewelry is. I asked why was he looking through my jewelry and he said he was looking for his bracelet (that I got him as a wedding gift). He first accused me of selling it all to get money. And I told him the truth which is that my Aunt suggested she keep all my valuable stuff, for my protection. He got PISSED! I didn't react at all. (Actually I couldn't muster up much emotion due to being dead tired from coming in at 3:30 a.m) and it was 7:30 when he confronted me on this.
He said I was just thinking that you sold it all and yet you keep asking me for money for the checking account, acting like I'm some kind of money pit, like you always have. I've never treated him like a money pit. I just don't know where they pull these ridiculous thoughts from.
His thinking is sooo warped. Does he not realize that although he doesn't live here, the bills have not gone away? I'm so concerned he is going to make things really ugly for me.
