Haven't posted in a while so I thought I'd make a little update.
Events? Well, I found out last week that she reactivated her FB account. I didn't think delete her when she went offline in June or whatever. I was concerned about her snooping through my page (FB friends, etc) so I edited my profile to exclude her from seeing non-mutial friends, and a couple of my photo albums.
Next morning I discover she is "gone" from my friends and she changes her Berry status to "Moving On". It stung for a minute and then the complete farce of such a statement made me laugh.
Pure button pushing. Retaliation. So grade 2!
So I'm about as dark as one can get with a co-parenting situation.
Perspective? I've decided to see her like I view my other ex-GF's. I remember the good stuff from those R's but the negatives are pretty faded. Granted the last one was almost 20 years ago and W is pretty fresh. However, it seems to have helped my detachment.
I really have nothing left to say to her or anything to acomplish. The balance of the D proceedings are in her lap. I haven't said it outright but it's been in past convo's. And I've heard nothing about it since the vehicle trade two weeks ago.
I put a 'Wonka-esque' WOA into a text a few days ago and it was ignored (a comment on the boots she bought for D2) Given the FB thing, I'm not shocked.
It is what it is. I'm learniing to view her comments and tactics as continued signs of her dysfunction rather than shots at me. It's a good view as these little games just roll past me. Far less analyzing than I used to make. I just sort of "note it" rather than trying to figure out what she's trying to say. If she has something to say, she should say it. And until she gets to that point, there is nothing for me to respond to.
Thanks everyone.
Live Little Fridays was awesome!! I dare anyone to keep me away from the next one!
