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[newmama]

Hi Violin, I think it depends on what we individual women are looking for! What I think is "cute" may not be "cute" to someone else. I am not into church, for example, and other women are.

the 3 guys I winked at this latest round:
-all were divorced with kids
-all were between my age and 40
-all were attractive (to me)
-none were overweight
-all were Caucasian (I am only attracted to white guys)
-all had "natural" pictures and several--there are so many guys on there who have these cheesy forced pics where they are showing their "muscles" or they are are

Their profiles varied but they had some things in common (interest wise). None were religious, none were conservative politically. I think all were "spiritual but not religious"

I think a couple were entrepeneurs and one was into advertising.

What has been interesting, is that lately I see a lot saying they are looking for women who love their job. I also see requests for women who can talk about current events and politics.

I think that as a rule, women just don't wink as much as men do. Why?Maybe we don't have to because the men wink at us. So if you are not getting a wink, don't think it means anything! Just wink away.

OH and the guy I went out with who was 50 pounds heavier than his pic was someone who didn't have an account with match. So he didn't wink back for over a week because he had to sign up. Maybe some women are in that category.

Violin let me ask- who do you wink at? Also, how much of a turn off is a squishy stomach if the rest of the figure is good?