Dan,

Make sure you are DOCUMENTING everything, esp. the financial stuff. I don't think any one incident will make much of a difference, but if there's a pattern to it, it should help.

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)