the ow is attractive because she doesnt comment on how he spends every cent he makes lives for the moment, the shows he watches, heavy metal, howard stern he listens to all day, and pornography. I know i shouldnt have been controlling about these things but i was afraid they would be a bad influence on our family and he would fall into temptation and that is what happened. Only a miracle could save our marriage by saving him first. I believe what you put into your mind effects your actions. But he thinks everything is a joke and it wont effect him. I got very spiritual going thru this and got more obsessive about his neg. habits. He is what people call a bad boy and I wanted to change that to save our family.
