I am giving you some examples of parenting plans because I think you misunderstand what it's for. It's not about bedtimes. It's about who gets your child at what time, who gets to have a say in decisions about him, etc. It's very important to have all this spelled out in great detail. Otherwise, you leave the door open for problems. Example, one day my ex-h was late and I got worried. I found out that because I did not have a detailed parenting plan I had no grounds to get my kids back if he decided to keep them. Very scary. Another example, my son had a life threatening illness and I had to get my mentally ill ex h's consent because it wasn't clear in the parenting plan that I could make the decision myself.

The first one is not in NY state but I really liked the wording and it's very similar. The second one is the worksheet for the NY forms.
http://www.parentingafterdivorce.com/books/plan.html

http://www.courts.state.ny.us/forms/matrimonial/Parenting-Plan-Form.pdf

This one is the general NY D webpage. I have linked the forms for the parenting plan but in general you should inform yourself here. If you don't have the other forms, you probably need them as well.

http://www.nycourts.gov/divorce/forms.shtml


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