I am moving over here from affairs. Still think H has had or is still having an affair, but I think it is a symptom more than a cause. My old thread was:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2098161#Post2098161

I have a pile of D3's Halloween candy, and I spent part of the day condensing my journal to post here. Really gave me a lot to think about. Tried to keep it short, but I'm a chatterbox. I'll post it in pieces to make it less difficult.

I would really appreciate anybody giving me their 2 cents.