You can't ride two horses with one ass. Read Michele's blog at David and Patricia Arquette.
If you're in your in. Date if you're divorced. You dilute your heart and your mentality toward your relationship and internal growth goals by dating other people.
The purpose of this site is to save relationships. Then to support those who don't. To heal. If you want a chance with your marriage, don't date someone else, even if your spouse does. Take the high road.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001