I understand that you are way too emotionally charged right now to see your last few post as manipulation and vengeful. DB'ing is not a game to get back at your spouse, but tools and strategy to help you regain your composer so that you can see things objectively and set strategy to help you become a stronger, healthier and happier person.
If your marriage can be saved as you are working on making you better then you achieved the ultimate goal. However, if your W choses not to reconcile then you are in the postiton menatlly to withstand the lose and successfully move on with your life. It is not a game and please refrain from going tit for tat with your W or you will end up like the Rose family from ther War with the Roses.
