Trust me, there is nothing you are going to do that is not going to piss her off aside from giving her everything she wants. You have been footing the bills on everything that have allowed her to be a cheater. Now you're standing up for yourself, she's pissed. Oh well. You're income is to support your family. The number one priority is to see that your son's needs are met.
I have done pretty good today keeping my distance and not snooping. Trying to keep as distant as possible.
One of my students whos been through this before a few times with his soon to be ex said his came back after a few monthes once he lost interest in her.
lol shes really curious and prying about where and who I am going out to tonight. I averted the topic and she kept trying to get me to tell her. She said she's was concerned because I might be hanging out with a dude she didn't like from a long time ago. I eventually told her not to worry about it in a nice way and got up and left.
I understand that you are way too emotionally charged right now to see your last few post as manipulation and vengeful. DB'ing is not a game to get back at your spouse, but tools and strategy to help you regain your composer so that you can see things objectively and set strategy to help you become a stronger, healthier and happier person.
If your marriage can be saved as you are working on making you better then you achieved the ultimate goal. However, if your W choses not to reconcile then you are in the postiton menatlly to withstand the lose and successfully move on with your life. It is not a game and please refrain from going tit for tat with your W or you will end up like the Rose family from ther War with the Roses.
got home late 630am... she got up whwn i did for some water and started trying to figure out where i went. i just left it at "a house party" amd didnt say anything else. she started trying to aak more questions thiugh but i just went back to bed.
