Pollyanna, you'll have to pardon my paranoia (having been cheated on), but are they REALLY getting a divorce? If he is so wealthy why doesn't he live separately? I suppose there could also be some legal thing where if he were to move out she would get the whole house or something.
It's funny but I wouldn't be concerned about the Dutch business unless you had wind of other cheapskate comments... (cheapskate= controlling, in my opinion)
6-7 years ago, I was having so much fun with the internet dating thing and it was pretty much my hobby! So I am glad to see you are having a good time--quite a Pollyanna indeed!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004