I guess it just felt strange not to acknowlege it at all. We always used to celebrate these days together. My birthday is not for several months and I have no idea if he would acknowledge it or not.
I do feel the way some of you have mentioned, that this is what he wants to be divorced and not involved any more, so then I shouldn't acknowledge it.
But then again I do not want to come across as angry or upset if I do not say anything to him.
We have been getting along fairly well....until last weekend when I was reminded, A reminder that I very much needed. About just how selfish and self centered he is right now.
And maybe that is why I am so confused, a week ago, I am sure I would have said a simple Happy Birthday, But right now I feel I do not know this man right now.
Maybe tomorrow if it is still on my mind alot I can send out a "hope you had a nice day" message to him.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
