I always find it fascinating to observe a BS try to be mysterious. The harder they seem to try to be mysterious the more obvious it becomes that they are TRYING to be mysterious. Of course it very seldom works and they then wonder why and go back to purusing and chasing...
Quit trying and start doing...
Study what the WAW does when checking out of a relationship and copy what they do. It certainly works for them. Take your wife for example..
Last week she told you she was going on a "girls night out" complete with a night stay away in a hotel on the beach. She even sent you pictures..
Do you remember how you FELL for it? And yet she is being mysterious right? You are still wonder about this "girls night out at the beach"...
So, did she leave the house and NOT tell you what she was doing? Did she just say good bye?
NO.. She told you a week in advance (set up her lie is more like it) that she was going... She was covering her tracks BEFORE she went. This is what the WAW does. They are NOT trying to be mysterious. They are actually trying NOT TO BE MYSTERIOUS. They are actually trying to get you to think they are being honest..
On the other hand, when a BS "tries" to be mysterious, they try the exact opposite things.. Instead of saying they are going on a "girls night out"... the BS tries to get the Wayward curious by saying.. "Oh I am going out with a "friend" hoping the WS will say "what friend? Is it a woman? who is she?" The BS then tries to keep being mysterious by saying things like " I don't ask you where you go".. etc etc etc..
THAT DOES NOT WORK.. STUDY THE WAYWARD behaviour if you want to learn HOW to be mysterious so that it WORKS...
Think about it.. You ARE trying to hard Pens. Trying way too hard...
